Theories

People say, when you're in a relationship, you go with the flow. What does that mean exactly? I've come to think that it means go at your own pace, at whatever is comfortable for you. See, I've been trying to anticipate the other person's pace, and trying to match. Everytime it's ended up in failure. Do what you want to do, when you want to do it. If you wanna see her tonight, see her tonight. If they can't keep up, maybe it's time to move on. Now, I'm not trying to say move too fast, like rush into anything. Just go. Don't think too much and go. Don't be worried about getting hurt, because everyone gets hurt at one time or another. It's just a fact of life. And if we don't take risks, how are we supposed to find what truly makes us happy? If the relationship doesn't last, won't it feel better knowing you did what you wanted to do while you were in it, rather than holding yourself back? If the other person doesn't respond, then adapt. Girls like guys who are assertive. If you're constantly thinking whether or not they'll like something, you'll end up not doing it. At least if you're trying to do things (even simple things like holding hands), and they don't respond well to it, at least you're trying and not staying idle like a pansy. I guess that's what's on my mind right now.